Seeing it differently, to do it differently
NAVIGATING COMPLEX WORKPLACE DYNAMICS
Welcome back to our empowering confidence blog series for career-driven women of color. In this installment, we delve into the convoluted world of navigating complex workplace dynamics. As a mindset coach dedicated to empowering women of color, I understand the challenges we face and the importance of cultivating a resilient mindset to thrive in the professional sphere. Drawing inspiration from the remarkable Michelle Obama, we will explore practical strategies to overcome obstacles, embrace authenticity, and lead with confidence in any room we choose to enter.

In my journey, I have come to appreciate the power of embracing authenticity. As Michelle Obama eloquently stated, "Authenticity is the daily practice of letting go of who we think we're supposed to be and embracing who we are." Your unique background, experiences, and culture bring immeasurable value to the workplace.

Let me share a personal narrative. When I started my career in higher education, I felt the pressure to conform to traditional norms, fearing that my true self was unworthy or would be seen as different. But as I grew in my confidence, I realized that my authenticity was my superpower. By embracing who I truly am, I was able to bring a fresh perspective, creativity, and resilience to my work. Now I share this story not to say that my confidence has never been broken. Whenever I see myself back conforming and silencing the value I bring to a room, I must ask myself when and why I am no longer comfortable or confident in my authenticity.  So, embrace your uniqueness and let it shine, for it is your authentic self that will make a lasting impact in spaces or with people to deserve/desire the value you bring.

Navigating Bias with Confidence: Rising Above Limitations with a Strong Network

Michelle Obama once said, "Success isn't about how much money you make; it's about the difference you make in people's lives." To make that difference, we must navigate bias with confidence and grace. Bias can present itself in subtle or overt ways, affecting opportunities and limiting our growth. And as shared in the last installment, biases are also rooted in societal sexism and/or racist ideologies that are utilized as a form of control/manipulation/gaslighting.  

I've, like many of you reading this installment, personally encountered bias throughout my career, and it can be disheartening. But here's what I've learned: you are not defined by the biases of others. Your worth and potential are far greater than any limitations imposed upon you. Approach bias with resilience and an unyielding belief in your capabilities. Surround yourself with a supportive network, seek out support, and advocate for your worth. 

Which is why building strong networks is essential. Michelle Obama wisely said, "We should always have three friends in our lives: one who walks ahead, who we look up to and follow; one who walks beside us, who is with us every step of our journey; and then, one who we reach back for and bring along after we've cleared the way."

I have experienced the transformative power of a supportive network/community firsthand. Surround yourself with individuals who understand your journey, uplift your spirit, and celebrate your successes. Seek mentors/coaches who have overcome similar challenges and can offer guidance. And just like, Michelle Obama shared in her Oprah interview about her recent book, The Light We Carry, remember, the beauty in the slow ghosting.  Michelle explained, “It’s [a] slow ghost, - where you don’t cut ‘em off right away, but you just become less… available.”  So be intentional in building a support system that empowers you to navigate workplace dynamics with strength and unity. Through our collective supportive and strong networks, we can rise above obstacles and forge new paths for future generations.

Because your leadership potential knows no bounds. I want to share a personal story that resonates with this sentiment. Throughout my career, I hesitated to embrace my leadership potential, questioning whether I had the authority or capability to lead. But as I connected with other women of color and witnessed their incredible journeys, I realized that leadership comes in many forms. We lead by example, by lifting others, and by creating change from within. We possess unique insights and experiences that can transform industries. 
As a mindset coach, I firmly believe that every woman of color has innate leadership potential waiting to be unleashed. Despite underrepresentation in leadership positions, your unique perspectives and talents make you natural leaders.

Embrace your leadership potential with confidence and purpose. Seek out opportunities to lead and make your mark. Mentor others and advocate for equity and inclusivity. By owning your leadership potential, you not only transform your career but also inspire a generation of future leaders.

Navigating complex workplace dynamics as career-driven women of color requires a resilient mindset and unwavering confidence. Embrace your authenticity, navigate bias with grace, build strong networks, and own your leadership potential. Together, we can overcome challenges, celebrate successes, and empower women of color to shape their destinies.

Until next time, remember, you are deserving, capable, and invaluable. Let your confidence shine and make your mark on the world.